So my mom texts me and tells me to call her because she had hand surgery yesterday and can’t text.
I take the bait even though I know it’s bait because why not, I slept 11 hours last night, I’m feeling pretty good today.
me:
“Hi mom what’s up?”
my mom:
“Oh I just wanted to tell you I had hand surgery yesterday and you know what? I was awake for the whole thing and I watched him do it, Carolyn! Er, Emily!”
(There hasn’t been a single conversation in the past ten years where she hasn’t called me Carolyn at least once. That’s her sister’s name. She also did that to me a lot as a kid.)
me:
*barely able to muster up any interest*
“Oh yeah?”
my mom:
“Yeah for my trigger finger! So they gave me a local anesthetic and completely numbed my hand, and then when he cut into the skin there was hardly any blood. And …”
(She proceeded to go into very graphic detail and at that moment I was thinking about that scene in National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation (1989) where Ellen’s mother tells her she has hemorrhoids, like, RIGHT after they arrive.)
me:
breaking her off
“Mom why are you telling me this?”
her:
*pause*
“I just think it’s cool.”
(Fuckin’ Marge Simpson with the potato over here.)
me:
“It is cool but I just really don’t need to hear all about it in graphic detail.”
her:
“Oh but it wasn’t gory at all! And check this out! There was a white thing inside my hand and I asked if that was the bone and the doctor said, ‘no, move your finger,’ and I saw it move and it was the tendon!”
me:
“Okay mom, seriously though this stuff gets to me …”
her:
“Oh that’s right I guess I should have known since you fainted that one time when you cut your hand. But you were GUSHING blood and there was no blood at all with this!”
me:
“Yeahokaythat’sgreat so more importantly your finger is going to be okay?”
her:
“My hand, but yes, I’ll be alright.”
me:
“I’m really glad to hear that. Was there anything else?”
her:
“Oh! Yes, check this out: I was at Walmart the other day and I found 80⁄20 ground chuck, and you know how much it cost?”
me:
Not answering and probably making a face like annoyed Jack Nicholson.
her:
“$2.98 a pound! Can you believe it? So I bought a whole bunch and made tacos and lasagne and meatballs and …”
me:
“That’s great mom.”
her:
“Anyway I just wanted to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving! I bought a small turkey breast for myself but I forgot to take it out of the freezer so I’ll be having thanksgiving dinner Sunday night!”
me:
“You should be able to put it in a tub of cold water and get it to thaw faster as long as you keep the water cold and remember to put it in the fridge.”
her:
“Oh yeah huh! I totally forgot all about that! I’ll do that.”
me:
“Good. Well, I gotta go mom but happy Thanksgiving and I’m glad your hand is okay. Please take care of yourself, okay?
her:
“Oh I will! Happy Thanksgiving!”
*in my best Patton Oswalt*
I PROMISE you that this ENTIRE conversation took place EXACTLY like that.
—emily duchaine
Flommist Emily Duchaine lives in the Pacific Northwest. She likes to drink mead, learn about sharks, and listen to the Talking Heads. She pretends to be a professional businesswoman most days. Copyright © 2020 Emily Duchaine.
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