I feel like it bears repeating, that if you are not able to appreciate or romanticize things that are common, you’re really only making yourself miserable.
Like, you could look at your partner when they’re tired and unshaven and in their doing-laundry clothes and feel bitter every time you’re not living in a fantasy
OR
you could just include that as part of your fantasy and make out with them.
In one scenario, you are only doomed to misery and nobody benefits. In the other, you get to make out with your favorite person.
But I’m not trying to tell you what to do.
I’m just saying that people (women mostly) literally get murdered over this kind of stuff. Someone got into their own head obsessing about how someone wasn’t doing or being exactly what they want, instead of just deciding to want something they could really have.
—bwargh von modnar
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