“The measure was written to confuse people.”
“The description in the pamphlet was confusing.”
“Too many people sat out and didn’t vote.”
I am despaired by people’s constant attempts to explain away what they see right before their very eyes because the truth is just too painful.
An important part of being an ally is accepting the facts.
It doesn’t mean you have to like it or lay down and give in to it, but being honest about what you’re up against is crucial in order to forge ahead and effect change.
Gay people were absolutely despised in the ’70, ’80s and ’90s. Economic disparity, societal unrest, cultural upheaval – they were blamed for everything, even though they were nothing more than a scapegoat for the utter disaster that is Reaganomics.
It was both horrible and ridiculous.
AIDS was “the gay plague.” Hate crimes and violence against gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community escalated significantly and were likely underreported due to lack of legal protection and total apathy on behalf of police.
The repeal of the FCC Fairness Doctrine gave way to talk radio, partisan reporting, and eventually the 24 hour news cycle. There wasn’t a talk jockey in existence at the time who didn’t constantly make disgusting jokes about f*gs and d*kes.
Rush Limbaugh hated on the LGBTQ+ community daily. His blatant homophobia helped to further enraged millions of knuckle-dragging deplorables and got them foaming at the mouth.
And he was only one person. There were plenty more where he came from. Then along came Fox News, constantly and relentlessly churning out ugly, disgusting mischaracterizations and lies, which they are (unfortunately) still doing to this day.
The ’90s saw Don’t Ask Don’t Tell and DOMA. Oh and remember Prop 8? Voters in California passed that in 2008. In CALIFORNIA. 𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰𝘥𝘥𝘢𝘮𝘯 𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵. That wasn’t even twenty years ago.
And now it is all happening again with the transgender community. People you know and trust, people you think are progressive, they voted for this.
They diligently filled in the little circle next to “yes” when deciding to still tax billionaires and protect children from violence at home. While passing the library levy. While ensuring Washington State democrats kept their seats in the House and republicans picked up zero.
People knew exactly what they were doing. Do not let them fool you and do not fool yourself. Be sad, be angry, be frustrated, because it’s disheartening and infuriating and fucking tragic.
But people knew. That is the reality we are dealing with, and there is a long road ahead.

“America is back!”
And Hakeem Jeffries is already making an utter jackass out of himself.
He has no point. The democrats absolutely have to step up and actually do their jobs and look to people like Mamdani for examples while also dragging these Nazis to the gallows.
People deserve the breath they’ve been waiting to take for years now but it’s folly to believe that the American people cared about anything more than the price of groceries.
The overwhelming majority of democrats in congress accept AIPAC funds. We just replaced one tire on a car that still needs to be traded in entirely.

—emily duchaine
Flommist Emily Duchaine lives in the Pacific Northwest. She likes to drink mead, learn about sharks, and listen to the Talking Heads. She pretends to be a professional businesswoman most days. Copyright © 2026 Emily Duchaine. Top image source.
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