I’ve learned to be more comfortable with opening up about my experience of coping with my mental health.
Most of us hide it very well; which is scary. I have streaks of good days where I feel like I’ve shaken this demonic force that loves to rattle my cage. But then, out of no where, it takes just one wrong thought and I’m spiraling down.
It fucking sucks and can get exhausting to continuously feeling like I have to be in warrior mode. But that is what I’ve learned. I’ve learned to put up a fight. I’ve learned that this too shall pass.
To cope, I made a list of essentials I need in my life to keep my head above water.
I enjoy alone time and sometimes that’s all I need is a long quiet car ride so I can talk out my feelings.
I have happy books I’ve created that are full of words of encouragement.
I created a binder of some of my best accomplishments to remind me of my gifts.
And of course creating is the best form of therapy for me but sometimes there’s too much going on in my head to get in the right frame of mind.
Please know it’s ok to feel how you feel. You don’t need to hide it. You don’t need to be ashamed. You are human. You are loved.
Practice looking yourself in the mirror and saying “I love you.”
Sit outside and watch how the shadows change in the sunlight. Let your mind relax. Give yourself grace. Love who you are. ALL of who you are because you are magic and you are here for a reason.
—danielle steers
Flommist Danielle Steers is searching for her happy place in life and has found it right between photography and design. Copyright © 2020 Danielle Steers.
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