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“Do not take the woman by your side for grant­ed just be­cause you know she loves you. Be­cause love that is not cared for, that will de­cay with time and that’s when you lose it …

“Do not take the woman at your side for grant­ed just be­cause she wants too much and be­cause she ob­vi­ous­ly fights for this re­la­tion­ship, a woman who does that is far from self-ev­i­dent, do not pun­ish her for be­ing ready in a numb world to show …

“Do not take them for grant­ed, be­cause you must not for­get that time can change feel­ings. We have all been in a sit­u­a­tion where we looked at our ex-part­ners and thought about how we could love this per­son once, also their feel­ings could change and you could be that ex she looks at and shakes her head …

“The most im­por­tant les­son of any re­la­tion­ship is that peo­ple can go away, and if you do not pay at­ten­tion to the part­ner or work in that con­nec­tion, the urge to turn your back on the oth­er per­son is even greater …

“Do not take them for grant­ed, be­cause you think there are oth­er ‘fish’ in the sea that may be bet­ter. You may not yet see it at this mo­ment, but time will hit you with re­al­i­ty, and then you will re­al­ize that lone­li­ness is slow­ly turn­ing into a cold, in­vis­i­ble form whose hands you do not want to be hugged by, and that only be­cause you were al­ways on the search for some­thing bet­ter, un­til at the end there was noth­ing but lone­li­ness …

“Do not take them for grant­ed, be­cause you are look­ing for ‘bet­ter.’ She is a rare gem­stone and she knows that, but she will not force you to rec­og­nize it, you have to do that by your­self. Yes I know, some­times we find it dif­fi­cult to rec­og­nize and un­der­stand our hap­pi­ness in time, be­cause this so­ci­ety is al­ways look­ing for great so we eas­i­ly over­look the fact that we al­ready have the great­est thing ever, right in front of our eyes …

“Do not take it for grant­ed be­cause you be­lieve it will al­ways stay and tol­er­ate your be­hav­ior for­ev­er. Maybe she will stay now be­cause she loves you, but when she starts think­ing about this dull re­la­tion­ship she will not be afraid to close the door any­more …

“You know she did not de­serve a cold shoul­der, be­cause she has found beau­ty in your stains, she has de­cid­ed to love an im­per­fect per­son, name­ly you …

“She does not want much, all she re­al­ly wants is to be treat­ed like your wife, your best friend and soul mate. She wants to feel safe, she wants to know that your arms are a safe place for her. Loy­al­ty is an un­der­rat­ed char­ac­ter trait be­cause it is of­ten men­tioned but sel­dom lived, but it is cer­tain to you when you start to live what you con­stant­ly promise it …”
 
 

—blu

Flom­mist Blu is an enig­ma. A metaphor wrapped in an al­le­go­ry. ‘I am Jack’s colon. If I get can­cer, I kill Jack.’ Copy­right © 2018 mech­a­nizzm. Foto by Austin Page. Com­ment orig­i­nat­ed here.

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