“Do not take the woman by your side for granted just because you know she loves you. Because love that is not cared for, that will decay with time and that’s when you lose it …
“Do not take the woman at your side for granted just because she wants too much and because she obviously fights for this relationship, a woman who does that is far from self-evident, do not punish her for being ready in a numb world to show …
“Do not take them for granted, because you must not forget that time can change feelings. We have all been in a situation where we looked at our ex-partners and thought about how we could love this person once, also their feelings could change and you could be that ex she looks at and shakes her head …
“The most important lesson of any relationship is that people can go away, and if you do not pay attention to the partner or work in that connection, the urge to turn your back on the other person is even greater …
“Do not take them for granted, because you think there are other ‘fish’ in the sea that may be better. You may not yet see it at this moment, but time will hit you with reality, and then you will realize that loneliness is slowly turning into a cold, invisible form whose hands you do not want to be hugged by, and that only because you were always on the search for something better, until at the end there was nothing but loneliness …
“Do not take them for granted, because you are looking for ‘better.’ She is a rare gemstone and she knows that, but she will not force you to recognize it, you have to do that by yourself. Yes I know, sometimes we find it difficult to recognize and understand our happiness in time, because this society is always looking for great so we easily overlook the fact that we already have the greatest thing ever, right in front of our eyes …
“Do not take it for granted because you believe it will always stay and tolerate your behavior forever. Maybe she will stay now because she loves you, but when she starts thinking about this dull relationship she will not be afraid to close the door anymore …
“You know she did not deserve a cold shoulder, because she has found beauty in your stains, she has decided to love an imperfect person, namely you …
“She does not want much, all she really wants is to be treated like your wife, your best friend and soul mate. She wants to feel safe, she wants to know that your arms are a safe place for her. Loyalty is an underrated character trait because it is often mentioned but seldom lived, but it is certain to you when you start to live what you constantly promise it …”
—blu
Flommist Blu is an enigma. A metaphor wrapped in an allegory. ‘I am Jack’s colon. If I get cancer, I kill Jack.’ Copyright © 2018 mechanizzm. Foto by Austin Page. Comment originated here.
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