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THE BATTLE FOR MODeRN 1923


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the bullet is still flying

Man sur­prised me most about hu­man­i­ty. Be­cause he sac­ri­fices his health in or­der to make money. 

Then he sac­ri­fices mon­ey to re­cu­per­ate his health. And then he is so anx­ious about the fu­ture that he does not en­joy the present; the re­sult be­ing that he does not live in the present or the fu­ture; he lives as if he is nev­er go­ing to die, and then dies hav­ing nev­er re­al­ly lived.’
—James J. Lachard

The prob­lem with dodg­ing the bul­let is that the bul­let is still fly­ing, and still needs to be dealt with – if you dodge it, then it will prob­a­bly hit some­one else. “Whew!” Ex­cept not; if you’ve pinned your rep­u­ta­tion on your abil­i­ty to do the job, what­ev­er the job, right, then the fail­ure is still go­ing to stick to you. Plus, you’ll have lost the trust of the peo­ple around you, es­pe­cial­ly the ones who end­ed up pay­ing for your mis­takes, whether by tak­ing the blame or cleaningup the mess. Or, in the worst case, you’ll have dis­tract­ed enough at­ten­tion that the mess doesn’t get cleaned up at all.

On the oth­er hand, ad­mit­ting your fault puts you one step clos­er to deal­ing with it, and can of­ten be the first step to­wards a suc­cess­ful turn-around. At the least, though, it shows that you’re some­one with in­tegri­ty and courage, even in the face of dis­as­trous consequences.

Here are a few point­ers about ’fes­s­ing up and deal­ing with your mistakes:

·  See things from some­one else’s per­spec­tive. If you’ve made a promise and failed to keep it, put your­self in the oth­er party’s shoes and see how things look from there. How would you feel? What would your re­sponse be if you were them? And what ac­tion would sat­is­fy you?

·  Be sym­pa­thet­ic. Re­al­ize that your mis­takes might af­fect many more peo­ple than just you, and rec­og­nize the pain you’ve caused. A lit­tle bit of sym­pa­thy can well be the open­ing you need to set things right.

·  Take re­spon­si­bil­i­ty. Don’t try to weasel out of it, and don’t look around wild­ly for some­one else to blame. Even if your fail­ure came about be­cause some­one let you down, you’re ul­ti­mate­ly re­spon­si­ble for the projects un­der your authority.

·  Ac­cept the con­se­quences. It’s hard, I know, but some­times you have to bite the bul­let and take your lumps. Few ac­tions come with­out any con­se­quences at all; be pre­pared to em­brace what­ev­er be­falls you as a re­sult of the mis­takes you’ve made.

·  Have a plan. Tak­ing re­spon­si­bil­i­ty means be­ing pre­pared to clean up the mess, which means you need a plan. You should have a clear idea of what went wrong and how you can fix it – and how you can avoid it in the future.

·  Be sin­cere. Don’t pre­tend to feel sym­pa­thy or act pho­ny so that the oth­er per­son can see how deeply you care. Don’t play the mar­tyr. Show hon­est emo­tion – the first step to re­build­ing the trust lost.

·  Apol­o­gize. No, re­al­ly. A lot of peo­ple go to great lengths to make up for their mis­takes – or to hide them – when a sim­ple “I’m sor­ry” would do the job, and cause a lot few­er hard feelings.

—blu

Flom­mist Blu is an enig­ma. A metaphor wrapped in an al­le­go­ry. ‘I am Jack’s colon. If I get can­cer, I kill Jack.’ Copy­right © 2016 mechanizzm.

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